Finessing

Definition Meaning

To finesse someone means to manipulate or maneuver them with tact, charm, and grace in order to achieve a desired outcome, typically without the other person noticing the manipulation. In internet culture, 'finessing' refers to the art of getting what you want through smooth, strategic actions or words, often involving some level of subtlety or deception.

Part of Speech

• verb

Usage Examples

• He finessed his way into getting a promotion by skillfully navigating office politics.
• She’s always finessing people into giving her what she wants, making it look effortless.

Synonyms

• manipulating
• charming
• strategizing

Antonyms

• blunt
• direct
• coercive

Related Words

• charm
• manipulation
• deception

Disambiguating Definition

Finessing involves manipulating a situation or individual with tact, charm, or skill, often in a way that appears subtle or harmless but ultimately serves one's own interests. In online contexts, it refers to using charm or strategy to achieve one's goals, often with little regard for transparency.

Word History

The term 'finesse' originally referred to skill or subtlety in action, particularly in the context of fine-tuned actions or crafts. Derived from the Old French word 'finesser,' meaning 'to refine' or 'to make fine,' it was used to describe skillful execution. Over time, the term developed a connotation of manipulating situations or people with skill and grace. In modern slang, 'finessing' refers to social or personal manipulation through charm, subtlety, or cunning, often to achieve personal gain without being overtly aggressive.

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